March 5, 2018

Memorial Service Update

If you plan to attend John’s celebration-of-life service, please RSVP to Again, here’s that information: A service to celebrate John’s warmth, wit, intelligence, irreverence, and humor will take place at 10 am on May 26, at the Unitarian-Universalist Church of Arlington, 4444 Arlington Blvd., Arlington, VA 22204;

March 4, 2018

May 26, 2018: A Celebration of John's Life

A service to celebrate John’s warmth, wit, intelligence, irreverence, and humor will take place at 10 am on May 26, at the Unitarian-Universalist Church of Arlington, 4444 Arlington Blvd., Arlington, VA 22204;

February 22, 2018

John V. Schappi, 1929-2018

John’s family would like to share this sad news with the readers of his blog:

John V. Schappi passed away on February 21, 2018 in Washington, DC, after two recent strokes and a long battle with Parkinson’s disease. He was 88.

A 1952 graduate of Cornell University’s School of Industrial and Labor Relations, John spent nearly 40 years working at the Bureau of National Affairs (now Bloomberg BNA), a legal publishing company. Hired in 1955, he later became associate editor overseeing BNA’s human resource publications. He also authored the book, Improving Job Attendance, named to Princeton University’s 1988 list of "Noteworthy Books in Industrial Relations and Labor Economics." He retired as vice president of BNA’s HR department in 1994 but remained on the company’s board of directors until 1998, completing 20 years of board service.

Outside of BNA, John was actively involved in the Washington, DC community. From 1982 to 1992, he served on the Whitman-Walker Clinic’s board of directors and as board president in 1990-91. He was selected for Leadership Greater Washington's class of 1990-91 and served on its board of directors in 1993-94. While a member of the vestry for St. John's Episcopal Church on Lafayette Square, he also served on the board of directors of the Pastoral Counseling and Consultation Center from 1988 to 1994.

During his retirement, John enjoyed biking, playing bridge, gardening, and attending theater and dance performances. He travelled frequently, collected friends around the globe, and developed a particular love affair with Nepal. He also continued to write, sharing his thoughts and experiences on his blog Aging, Parkinson’s and Me, recognized by Healthline as one of the best Parkinson’s disease blogs.

John is survived by his brother Roger Schappi in Ithaca, NY; children Todd Schappi in Thurmont, MD, and Ann Schappi in Alexandria, VA; grandchildren Jessica Dreisonstok, Emily Schappi-Fuller, and Colin Schappi; and seven great-grandchildren. He also leaves behind his long-time housemates, Nimesh Thapa, Bhawana Khadka, and their daughter Nivah, as well as scores of close friends who enriched his life. John’s children would especially like to thank his friends David Froemming and Bill Feldman for their incredible support over the past months.
In lieu of flowers, please feel free to make donations to the Parkinson’s Foundation (

We’ll share information about a memorial service as soon as details are set.

November 20, 2017

Hello from Rehab!

I haven’t posted anything for weeks. Here’s why:
  • On Sept 25, I had a “spell” at home, probably a TIA.
  • On Sept 26, I had another more serious spell at home, went to Georgetown Hospital, underwent tests, and learned I’d had “small stroke,” which affected mainly my right hand and arm.
  • On Sept 30, I fell at home, gashed my head, went to GWU Hospital, and received 15 staples and 6 stitches. I was admitted, and then had a series of TIAs that night. Additional weakness to my right side. (I would not have survived this fall had I not been wearing the medical alert chain around my neck. I used it to summon the EMTs.) 
  • On Oct 4, I went to the rehab center at Sibley Hospital. (I have no recollection of being at GWU or Sibley Hospital, and have heard that friends and family who were present did not think I was going to survive.)
  • On Oct 9, I went home under home hospice care. While at home for several weeks, I felt like I was improving.
  • On Nov 2, I went to the rehab center at Forest Hills on Connecticut Avenue, and have been here since. The photo of yours truly was taken in my room yesterday.

Therapists are working to help improve my speech and build up my strength. These healthcare providers, family, and friends all seem to agree that my situation is improving.

I'll keep you posted.

September 6, 2017

Happy New Year!

When I left Cornell Law School in March, 1955, I was two months away from my 26th birthday. Beginning when I was 5, the big event in all those formative years came in early September with the start of a new school year. So I've always thought of the week after Labor Day as the beginning of a New Year.

In many religions, fall is also a time for major festivals or events that call for reflecting on the past and contemplating the future.
  •  Dashain is the major festival for Hindus in Nepal. It usually occurs in late September or early October,
  •  Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, will be  celebrated September  9 and 10 this year. Yom Kipper, the Day of Atonement, follows on September 22.
  • Eid al-Adha, the celebration held to commemorate the story of Ibrahim, is the holiest event of the Muslim year. In 2017, it began either August 31 or September 1 and coincides with the Hajj pilgrimage to Mecca.
This will be the start of what promises to be a special year for me to reflect on the past, contemplate   the future, and enjoy each day with family and friends.